It is never too early to teach a child a lesson in reality

   Well, there are hundreds of things which are hard to decide. It all starts from the thing that all of us are different, something that may look good for someone may be the worst opportunity for another and so on. no one can say why do we study, work, create family it all becomes standard which is normal to do and everyone tries to fit in this standard. We know from childhood that we should study well, work hard and create perfect family but no one says how hard it is, no one says how many things may go wrong even if you've done everything right, no one says that eventually everyone is going to betray you sooner or later it would happen, no one says that friends and lovers just come and go and mostly all of them are going to break your heart, no one says that if you stay kind people will use you and take you for granted, no one says that your kindness and goodness and rightness is going to hurt you first of all...People around you are going to judge you by your appearence, your style, your manners, your way of talking, your ideas, your taste, they may laugh at you if you don't fit in or you may stay alone, at the same time they'll use your loneliness to prove that you are wrong because no one agrees, no one says how ugly society is and how hard it will be to try to change you untill finally you become a standard...So wellcome to this reality! but people don't tell you it when you are small nor do they when you are big, no one is going to tell you truth like it is, no matter how old you are, we learn it all from our experience, from others experience no one can teach us something untill we understand it on our own, untill we get it, so reality teaches us, some earlier others later but it doesn't happen on purpose and I  think it's never too early because earlier you understand it, less mistakes you make in future. Other way childhood shouldn't be time when we understand it because childhood is the only time when we still don't know the truth but are happy and pleased of everything so too early is not the best time to understand many things.  I'll give you advice, no matter what always listen to your heart because hert really never lies!

The Maxican!

So, I was thinking a lot what to write about and then i decided not to write at all, but I saw movie today...I mean i saw it long ago really long ago and I didnt remeber it well I just remembers the end...SO movie is not very old... But it's old....it is a 2001 American comedy film named "The Maxican"  directed by Gore Verbinski and starring Brad Pitt and Julia Roberts, with a plot that is an mixture of romantic comedy, thriller and road movie. So it is really interesting one and I laughed a lot there are many really funny moments and there is gun which should be found and it is really beautiful gun and it has story which is about lovers and if you want to understand the movie and the legend of the gun you should watch movie from start to end because for me it was breathtaking and really interesting and I love Julia very much so...Hope if you have lazy day and you dont know what to do, this post will help you to decide what movie to watch ( because this movie continues for 2 hours )  hope you'll like and  you'll enjoy it ;)

How much freedom should children have?

Well, at first I think there is no limit for freedom, if you are free you are absolutely free, but if we say "How much" "freedom" is not  exact word It's better to ask  "how much restrictions should there be for children?!" and mostly I think it depends on child and on trust of parents and on the way of bringing up, because, of course children shouldn't  have absolute freedom and their freedom grows with them  but in some cases it should be vice versa and some people should have less and less freedom, but it depends on a way of bringing up and situation aroud, and on how responsible is a human , and how they can realise situation and things happening around them so i think parents should decide it because they should know their children the best, but anyway there is no limit for freedom.

"Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all"

Me and little Katherin <3

       Love is thing that no one can explain exactly. It's individual for everyone, but I think for everyone Love includes all positive emotions at once and we never really stop loving someone or something. Love makes us closer to God because you cannot love God but hate someone who is near you.
        Some people who are soulless hate many other people, but I don't think it is right. People write about love but they think love is between man and woman which is stupid, Love is everywhere and in everything, between everyone...Friends, relatives, neighbours and strangers we all are humans so love is between every human, it is all positive in us and it awakens in us our good qualities. Everyone Loves someone or something. I don't understand people who love animals or things more than humans around them, even if people stop being humans we are all together anyway...
            So I think people can't LOSE LOVE. They can lose things which they Love but not love itself.and everyone loves, there isn't anyone who never loved!
      

Answers for K.

Hey guys! As you see I changed header and I think it's much better than old one...So I don't know how to name this post , but it's all about answers the most terrible question that follows most of us is "why?" the thing is that my friends Annie and Katherine have blog...here you can read it---> http://katannie.blogspot.com/ and the thing is that Katherine wrote post called "Why???"  and there are 17 questions which start with "why" and I dont know WHY but I just want to answer her because maybe it'll help her...
           here is K-s post  "Why do guys always hurt and don't care about others' feelings? Why nobody helps? Why everybody judges us? Why do people hate when they don't know a shit about the person? Why it hurts? Why it makes us cry? Why aren't we strong? Why don't we dream big? Why don't we live right? Why we hurt others without even knowing it? Why we have to smile when we're broken in peaces? Why isn't life a fairytale? Why we lose? Why we fall for ones who don't deserve any love? Why it still hurts? Why nobody cares? Why am I the one that can't answer this?... XoXo Katherine"
       So let's start!
                    1)Why do guys always hurt and don't care about others' feelings?  Well I don't think I can answer it properly, but I know many guys who aren't like that so our job is just to find right one and I think all guys care about others feelings but most of them just can't understand that their acts hurt us, or they are afraid to be hurt themselves.
                     2)Why nobody helps?For real there are many people around us who want and try to help us, but at first we have to help ourselves because if you're lost yourself  then no one can help you.
                    3)Why everybody judges us? Well, that's very old question...but you know it's easier to judge someone, than to try and find minuses in yourself, and mostly people who judge, aren't good enough. so they try to find many minuses in others, so they think they're better...People like that are really poor.
                    4)Why do people hate when they don't know a shit about the person? Well that's one more example of weak people...Hate, itself  is bad feeling, and I think only weak people hate, because strong ones are higher than that.
                    5)Why it hurts? Well it doesn't hurt, unless it's important for you, and we are young, we don't have much experience and we're not used to it, so maybe that's why.
                   6)Why it makes us cry?Well this answer depends on previous one...We cry when we don't know what else to do, and people think crying is weakness , but it's not and after you cry you always feel better, it's like all your pain and feelings were in these tears and now they're gone...They're away, and we feel emptyness like hole inside you, but time after it fills again with feelings and pain...It's normal...
                  7) Why aren't we strong?At start all of us are weak, because life doesn't come with instructions  and we don't know how to act when something happens for the first time... But soner or later we learn , others experience and we may have our own experience so then people become strong...They just should know how to be strong and they should understand it  themselves.
                  8)Why don't we dream big? Most of people think that dreaming is stupid and it doesn't give us anything, so people are afraid, because they think that to dream big means dreaming abut something impossible and they  think it's stupid, but there are "crazy" ones who dream big and are happy.
                 9)Why don't we live right?God created person and gave biggest gift, we are able to choose and it depends on person and their choice,  to live right or not ,but at first person should figure out what does "right" mean for them.
                10)Why we hurt others without even knowing it?Mostly people act like they want and they are searching benefit in everything , so sometimes they don't bother themselves to look around and notice how many people they hurt, and what I think everyone should do, is just to put  themself  on others place and think of how would they feel if someone treated them like that.
                 11)Why we have to smile when we're broken in peaces?If you feel bad and you don't want to smile then just don't , and be sad, no one said you have to smile, but if you want to be strong and you don't want others to know how hurt you are or you want to show others that it's not that easy to put you down, then of course you'll smile , it should be your choice.
                  12) Why isn't life a fairytale? Life is a long learning process and everything that happens teaches us something, and if life was a fairytale it would be boring and easy ,but as all people want to be strong they should pass obstacles, because in life nothing is easy to get and everything has it's price (I don't mean money)
                  13)Why we lose? Everything has its start and its end, and nothing lasts forever, that's fact and no one can change it and again we should get used to it because it teaches us something too.
                  14)Why we fall for ones who don't deserve any love?Well...because they need it most...
                  15)Why it still hurts? It still has meaning and means much for you, you still care about it.
                  16)Why nobody cares? People are too obsessed with themselves and their problems, and they become stone-hearted and we don't notice them who really cares.
                  17)Why am I the one that can't answer this?You are too young, you don't know and understand many things and you see problems in everything...It's normal just,  be, see, live simpler, and dont expect much. 
                                                      Hope I helped ^_^