Happy Christmas & New year!

Happy Christmas and New Year everyone! It's nearly 1 year since I created this blog, and just really many things changed....I just want to thank everyone who I know and who ever talked with me (sounds creepy, but anyway...) everyone who we meet on our journey of life is important, no matter if they hurt you, or make you extremely happy, or support you in something even enemies have big role in our life (If you'll ask me, in my opinion they have main roles) enemies are the ones, who keep you wanting to prove that you're worth something....So thanks everyone who took part in my life maybe even smallest but for me everyone has it's "price" and I want to wish  this  new year, 2013,   to be really special and I wish everyone to be just happy and leave all bad things in past year, and of course my dear readers thank you for " being" because this blog is special for me so I hope you like it, and you wont leave me, alone, in new year! (and here's Christmas song by Train I think it already became symbol of new year)

It is never too early to teach a child a lesson in reality

   Well, there are hundreds of things which are hard to decide. It all starts from the thing that all of us are different, something that may look good for someone may be the worst opportunity for another and so on. no one can say why do we study, work, create family it all becomes standard which is normal to do and everyone tries to fit in this standard. We know from childhood that we should study well, work hard and create perfect family but no one says how hard it is, no one says how many things may go wrong even if you've done everything right, no one says that eventually everyone is going to betray you sooner or later it would happen, no one says that friends and lovers just come and go and mostly all of them are going to break your heart, no one says that if you stay kind people will use you and take you for granted, no one says that your kindness and goodness and rightness is going to hurt you first of all...People around you are going to judge you by your appearence, your style, your manners, your way of talking, your ideas, your taste, they may laugh at you if you don't fit in or you may stay alone, at the same time they'll use your loneliness to prove that you are wrong because no one agrees, no one says how ugly society is and how hard it will be to try to change you untill finally you become a standard...So wellcome to this reality! but people don't tell you it when you are small nor do they when you are big, no one is going to tell you truth like it is, no matter how old you are, we learn it all from our experience, from others experience no one can teach us something untill we understand it on our own, untill we get it, so reality teaches us, some earlier others later but it doesn't happen on purpose and I  think it's never too early because earlier you understand it, less mistakes you make in future. Other way childhood shouldn't be time when we understand it because childhood is the only time when we still don't know the truth but are happy and pleased of everything so too early is not the best time to understand many things.  I'll give you advice, no matter what always listen to your heart because hert really never lies!

The Maxican!

So, I was thinking a lot what to write about and then i decided not to write at all, but I saw movie today...I mean i saw it long ago really long ago and I didnt remeber it well I just remembers the end...SO movie is not very old... But it's old....it is a 2001 American comedy film named "The Maxican"  directed by Gore Verbinski and starring Brad Pitt and Julia Roberts, with a plot that is an mixture of romantic comedy, thriller and road movie. So it is really interesting one and I laughed a lot there are many really funny moments and there is gun which should be found and it is really beautiful gun and it has story which is about lovers and if you want to understand the movie and the legend of the gun you should watch movie from start to end because for me it was breathtaking and really interesting and I love Julia very much so...Hope if you have lazy day and you dont know what to do, this post will help you to decide what movie to watch ( because this movie continues for 2 hours )  hope you'll like and  you'll enjoy it ;)

How much freedom should children have?

Well, at first I think there is no limit for freedom, if you are free you are absolutely free, but if we say "How much" "freedom" is not  exact word It's better to ask  "how much restrictions should there be for children?!" and mostly I think it depends on child and on trust of parents and on the way of bringing up, because, of course children shouldn't  have absolute freedom and their freedom grows with them  but in some cases it should be vice versa and some people should have less and less freedom, but it depends on a way of bringing up and situation aroud, and on how responsible is a human , and how they can realise situation and things happening around them so i think parents should decide it because they should know their children the best, but anyway there is no limit for freedom.

"Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all"

Me and little Katherin <3

       Love is thing that no one can explain exactly. It's individual for everyone, but I think for everyone Love includes all positive emotions at once and we never really stop loving someone or something. Love makes us closer to God because you cannot love God but hate someone who is near you.
        Some people who are soulless hate many other people, but I don't think it is right. People write about love but they think love is between man and woman which is stupid, Love is everywhere and in everything, between everyone...Friends, relatives, neighbours and strangers we all are humans so love is between every human, it is all positive in us and it awakens in us our good qualities. Everyone Loves someone or something. I don't understand people who love animals or things more than humans around them, even if people stop being humans we are all together anyway...
            So I think people can't LOSE LOVE. They can lose things which they Love but not love itself.and everyone loves, there isn't anyone who never loved!
      

Answers for K.

Hey guys! As you see I changed header and I think it's much better than old one...So I don't know how to name this post , but it's all about answers the most terrible question that follows most of us is "why?" the thing is that my friends Annie and Katherine have blog...here you can read it---> http://katannie.blogspot.com/ and the thing is that Katherine wrote post called "Why???"  and there are 17 questions which start with "why" and I dont know WHY but I just want to answer her because maybe it'll help her...
           here is K-s post  "Why do guys always hurt and don't care about others' feelings? Why nobody helps? Why everybody judges us? Why do people hate when they don't know a shit about the person? Why it hurts? Why it makes us cry? Why aren't we strong? Why don't we dream big? Why don't we live right? Why we hurt others without even knowing it? Why we have to smile when we're broken in peaces? Why isn't life a fairytale? Why we lose? Why we fall for ones who don't deserve any love? Why it still hurts? Why nobody cares? Why am I the one that can't answer this?... XoXo Katherine"
       So let's start!
                    1)Why do guys always hurt and don't care about others' feelings?  Well I don't think I can answer it properly, but I know many guys who aren't like that so our job is just to find right one and I think all guys care about others feelings but most of them just can't understand that their acts hurt us, or they are afraid to be hurt themselves.
                     2)Why nobody helps?For real there are many people around us who want and try to help us, but at first we have to help ourselves because if you're lost yourself  then no one can help you.
                    3)Why everybody judges us? Well, that's very old question...but you know it's easier to judge someone, than to try and find minuses in yourself, and mostly people who judge, aren't good enough. so they try to find many minuses in others, so they think they're better...People like that are really poor.
                    4)Why do people hate when they don't know a shit about the person? Well that's one more example of weak people...Hate, itself  is bad feeling, and I think only weak people hate, because strong ones are higher than that.
                    5)Why it hurts? Well it doesn't hurt, unless it's important for you, and we are young, we don't have much experience and we're not used to it, so maybe that's why.
                   6)Why it makes us cry?Well this answer depends on previous one...We cry when we don't know what else to do, and people think crying is weakness , but it's not and after you cry you always feel better, it's like all your pain and feelings were in these tears and now they're gone...They're away, and we feel emptyness like hole inside you, but time after it fills again with feelings and pain...It's normal...
                  7) Why aren't we strong?At start all of us are weak, because life doesn't come with instructions  and we don't know how to act when something happens for the first time... But soner or later we learn , others experience and we may have our own experience so then people become strong...They just should know how to be strong and they should understand it  themselves.
                  8)Why don't we dream big? Most of people think that dreaming is stupid and it doesn't give us anything, so people are afraid, because they think that to dream big means dreaming abut something impossible and they  think it's stupid, but there are "crazy" ones who dream big and are happy.
                 9)Why don't we live right?God created person and gave biggest gift, we are able to choose and it depends on person and their choice,  to live right or not ,but at first person should figure out what does "right" mean for them.
                10)Why we hurt others without even knowing it?Mostly people act like they want and they are searching benefit in everything , so sometimes they don't bother themselves to look around and notice how many people they hurt, and what I think everyone should do, is just to put  themself  on others place and think of how would they feel if someone treated them like that.
                 11)Why we have to smile when we're broken in peaces?If you feel bad and you don't want to smile then just don't , and be sad, no one said you have to smile, but if you want to be strong and you don't want others to know how hurt you are or you want to show others that it's not that easy to put you down, then of course you'll smile , it should be your choice.
                  12) Why isn't life a fairytale? Life is a long learning process and everything that happens teaches us something, and if life was a fairytale it would be boring and easy ,but as all people want to be strong they should pass obstacles, because in life nothing is easy to get and everything has it's price (I don't mean money)
                  13)Why we lose? Everything has its start and its end, and nothing lasts forever, that's fact and no one can change it and again we should get used to it because it teaches us something too.
                  14)Why we fall for ones who don't deserve any love?Well...because they need it most...
                  15)Why it still hurts? It still has meaning and means much for you, you still care about it.
                  16)Why nobody cares? People are too obsessed with themselves and their problems, and they become stone-hearted and we don't notice them who really cares.
                  17)Why am I the one that can't answer this?You are too young, you don't know and understand many things and you see problems in everything...It's normal just,  be, see, live simpler, and dont expect much. 
                                                      Hope I helped ^_^

"Say nothing but good of the dead."

    I don't understand it exactly...Well I think so, because I think truth is the best and even if people say only good of the dead if he or she was a bad person they'll remember it anyway, and I'm not intrested in what people say but what they really think so no matter what they say, basis is what they think, but of course talking bad things of dead is unaccaptable and strange because everyone knows that you should say good or nothing at all, but I think it has other meaning I think it means to forgive dead people no matter what they did in lifetime.

Most experiences in our lives that seemed difficult at the time become valuable lesson for the future...

Everything comes and goes, sometimes it stays for some time, sometimes for long time, but finally always leaves us, the basis is, what you've got after it leaves.
  Evetyrhing in life , even stupid little things influence us as personalities, life sculpts personalities from us, and we cant judge anyone, because we never know their way and their life.
  The things that hurt us have bigger influence and effect on us, than things which make us happy.
   when child falls down and gets hurt next time he/she is more cautious, because they are afraid of making same mistake and getting hurt.When we become adults we do the same thing, the things that hurt us make us more cautious.
   And as everything comes and goes nothing lasts forever, and if it is difficult time it wont last forever, but  offensively is that we learn better on our own mistakes and even if you know someone's experience, and you know you're going to make same mistake, you do it anyway, and finally it changes us, someone to better side, someone to worse side and someone becomes just smarter and wiser...

Some people like to do only what they do well. other people prefer to try new things and take risks!

    I think it depends on person's character .Some people prefer to do only what they already do well and they don't want to upgrade their skills in something new, I think these people are afraid of obstacles on their way and they are afraid that they may do something wrong, make mistakes and look stupid...people like that should realise that if you wont work for something it wont work out and that everyone makes mistakes and that there are hundreds of people out there who think the same and it is not fearfully to look stupid... If you are on your way and you want to do something just do it no matter how difficult it seems to be, just give it a try!

      Some people aren't interested in new things I think it all comes from fears they are afraid of something so they prefer not to do it at all than to try something new...

      I think everyone should work on themselves and make best of what they can, they should do it for themselves and not mind about society's opinion of it. Biggest problem is that people care about others opinion too much so they can't be just stupidly happy... People have to believe in themselves fear less and do things which make them happy and things which they really enjoy doing!

What does Strong Human mean?

If someone had asked me few months ago this question my answer could be something like "I don't know, I'm not strong yet." Today answer is different, strong human is like stone, strong from outside and inside and every side. Someone may think ,it is simple, and yes it is! untill bad things aren't happening with you, and it is really hard sometimes if you  can't stand some kind of things. Worst is when you don't expect something bad to happen to you, but it happens (like always...Nothing is perfect ) When people who you thought were part of your family, who had big role in your life, treat you like if you've done something they can't forgive, and  at  the same time  you know you are right, but you can not prove that, you know that no one would believe you and you just can't change something. like everyone is against you and you feel so miserable as never before. you want to cry,shout,scream like if you are going to die , but even that wont change anything. When people don't want to listen or understand you, when they judge  your mistakes and not your abilities of doing something good, when you think different, when society is against you, you think it hurts like nothing else, but there is thing that is much difficult for me to stand... It is when someone whom you trusted like you never did before, someone who was part of your life, someone who you knew was not perfect, but still loved dearly,someone who you thought was different, was like you, someone who you thought will always be on your side, someone who wont  judge you and love you no matter what happens and finally this person betrays you...It  doesn't even hurt, but it changes your vision of world cardinally and when person betrays you, you don't even know how to trust people after all, because you are scared that if you trust and believe in them, one day they'll betray  you. and when someone (really good person) asks you if you trust them, you have to say "No" and hurt them, because you can not lie to them. and the situation is so difficult, that you feel like you are lost....Strong human is someone who can stand all the things I talked about, and still smile, like nothig else matters and everything is allright. So my answer changed, but I'm not strong yet.

Suicide is coward's way out of solving problems...

I think that suicide is not justified.well, sometimes there are problems that we think have no solution but it is not true (well if someone does not try to kill you) suicide is the biggest problem and mistake that may ever be done, but it is never solution of any problem.And when people say that only weak people commit suicide they are wrong.Ithink a person has to be strong enough to decide such thing because no one who is weak, scared  people who love life and who have a reason to live will never decide such thing they are scared to lose someone or something. Fear makes them weak so person who commits suicide has to be alone in their soul, has to have no reason of life.Sometimes people are tired of life I mean everything that life brings, some are tired of  routine and some just scared to be punished for their deeds, all these people make it because of hundred reasons and I don't  think that people can blame others for suicide because no one knows what may happen and how we may act in situation like theirs. To commit suicide is a very brave step and not everyone can make it so we mustn't think bad of people who end up like that and we cant judge them. religion considers suicide as a sin and they have many reasons to do so.....

~Volter~

   << Everything that happened in past, and everything that will happen after- is illusion. Only thing that has meaning, thing that is real- Present>> _ Volter
        I think Volter talked about life and happiness. Things that happened in past stayed in past, you can never change them, the future is still to come and it depends on us who are in present. And if you want to live a life not to be sorry about, you have to live in present, be clever to prevent future after your actions and learn from past because it gives us great experience. Everything that happens now happened once in past so you can learn many things from past, but the basis is that we live one life so live it as you want because we are always in present. Two minutes ago is already past two minutes later is already future!

Fairytales & Princesses

   Someone  may  think I’m fool because of Posts name and someone may ask why Fairytales? Why Princesses?  Well the thing is that I love my grandparents for their personalities (You may ask what Fairytales and princesses have in common with my grandparents?! I’ll try to explain ) My grandma returned from other country (Russia) yesterday, and because of looks that grandparents were giving each other I understood how much they love each other and their life is like  Fairytale but their own fairytale, It’s best thing about that.

  So I started to think about love and some stupid stuff,  and finally I thought about fairytales and as everyone knows in every fairytale there is Princess. I found out that fairytales aren’t fairytales (Well for me  and I’m going to explain it )as I know fairytale has to be little bit unreal to make us believe in magic and things that are rare in reality, but in reality there are nearly all  of Princesses but some are rare.
   Let's talk about most popular fairy tales, let's start from Ariel, well we can't live under water but her story is near reality too. She ran away from her father who loved her very much, but disliked her choice and she fall in love with only one look you may think it's romantic but she fall in love with Prince who was handsome and rich, who wont fall in love with guy like him?!
   Cinderella- she was poor girl who was pretty and wished for better life, so with help she went on dance and met Prince, prince Charming thought she was rich and beautiful so he wanted to find her and when finally he found he couldnt bring back his words and he was prince, handsome and rich,  who wont like him?!
   Belle- she was another poor but beautiful girl and one bad boy likes her and she was searching adventures and she met Beast who was rich and who had chance to be normal so when he fall in love with her she sayed she loved him and they stayed together .... all for money -_-
    Snow White- well you think that if not a prince kissed her she was going to marry anyone, no matter who he was? What a silly idea....
    Sleeping beauty- she fall in love with guy she first saw but who was handsome and good clothed and she wasnt princesse at that time so she couldnt think about Prince or someone better....
    Jasmine-  is another girl who fall in love with good looking guy, he wasn't rich but she was, and she was looking for someone new and Aladin came along...
    Well there is two Princesses who I like most! These are Rapunzel (from Tangled) and Fiona (from Shrek)
   Fiona- she has unordinary story which is really rare in reality. She really loved Shrek and it really was love because Shrek wasn't  handsome or rich, he was person whom everyone were afraid of, but she saw his personality and it wasn't love for something, but for him. They fall in love, they were happy and they made their own fairy tale... that's really rare because nowadays who can fall in love like them?!
    Here comes my favorite one.... Rapunzel fall in love with thief who was poor, but she loved him for his real personality, and their fairy tale is reallycutest one their love is so real without money...he was ready to change his future, just to be  with her and  no one knew she was Princess....and fairytale end very good because everyone's dream came true....

Summer PoSt!

 Hey everyone it is 10th of july and summer started a long ago but I didn't made any post which will touch summer so here it is! summer is special time of the year, every summer has it's  story  and every summer is special by something we meet new people, we travel to new places sometimes old... anyway it is always something important and right now I have summer mood so here are photos that can make you feel like me (well I hope so) XoXo your S. 

she has an amazing body!