It is never too early to teach a child a lesson in reality

   Well, there are hundreds of things which are hard to decide. It all starts from the thing that all of us are different, something that may look good for someone may be the worst opportunity for another and so on. no one can say why do we study, work, create family it all becomes standard which is normal to do and everyone tries to fit in this standard. We know from childhood that we should study well, work hard and create perfect family but no one says how hard it is, no one says how many things may go wrong even if you've done everything right, no one says that eventually everyone is going to betray you sooner or later it would happen, no one says that friends and lovers just come and go and mostly all of them are going to break your heart, no one says that if you stay kind people will use you and take you for granted, no one says that your kindness and goodness and rightness is going to hurt you first of all...People around you are going to judge you by your appearence, your style, your manners, your way of talking, your ideas, your taste, they may laugh at you if you don't fit in or you may stay alone, at the same time they'll use your loneliness to prove that you are wrong because no one agrees, no one says how ugly society is and how hard it will be to try to change you untill finally you become a standard...So wellcome to this reality! but people don't tell you it when you are small nor do they when you are big, no one is going to tell you truth like it is, no matter how old you are, we learn it all from our experience, from others experience no one can teach us something untill we understand it on our own, untill we get it, so reality teaches us, some earlier others later but it doesn't happen on purpose and I  think it's never too early because earlier you understand it, less mistakes you make in future. Other way childhood shouldn't be time when we understand it because childhood is the only time when we still don't know the truth but are happy and pleased of everything so too early is not the best time to understand many things.  I'll give you advice, no matter what always listen to your heart because hert really never lies!