Hey guys! As you see I changed header and I think it's much better than old one...So I don't know how to name this post , but it's all about answers the most terrible question that follows most of us is "why?" the thing is that my friends Annie and Katherine have blog...here you can read it---> http://katannie.blogspot.com/ and the thing is that Katherine wrote post called "Why???" and there are 17 questions which start with "why" and I dont know WHY but I just want to answer her because maybe it'll help her...
here is K-s post "Why do guys always hurt and don't care about others' feelings? Why nobody helps? Why everybody judges us? Why do people hate when they don't know a shit about the person? Why it hurts? Why it makes us cry? Why aren't we strong? Why don't we dream big? Why don't we live right? Why we hurt others without even knowing it? Why we have to smile when we're broken in peaces? Why isn't life a fairytale? Why we lose? Why we fall for ones who don't deserve any love? Why it still hurts? Why nobody cares? Why am I the one that can't answer this?... XoXo Katherine"
So let's start!
1)Why do guys always hurt and don't care about others' feelings? Well I don't think I can answer it properly, but I know many guys who aren't like that so our job is just to find right one and I think all guys care about others feelings but most of them just can't understand that their acts hurt us, or they are afraid to be hurt themselves.
2)Why nobody helps?For real there are many people around us who want and try to help us, but at first we have to help ourselves because if you're lost yourself then no one can help you.
3)Why everybody judges us? Well, that's very old question...but you know it's easier to judge someone, than to try and find minuses in yourself, and mostly people who judge, aren't good enough. so they try to find many minuses in others, so they think they're better...People like that are really poor.
4)Why do people hate when they don't know a shit about the person? Well that's one more example of weak people...Hate, itself is bad feeling, and I think only weak people hate, because strong ones are higher than that.
5)Why it hurts? Well it doesn't hurt, unless it's important for you, and we are young, we don't have much experience and we're not used to it, so maybe that's why.
6)Why it makes us cry?Well this answer depends on previous one...We cry when we don't know what else to do, and people think crying is weakness , but it's not and after you cry you always feel better, it's like all your pain and feelings were in these tears and now they're gone...They're away, and we feel emptyness like hole inside you, but time after it fills again with feelings and pain...It's normal...
7) Why aren't we strong?At start all of us are weak, because life doesn't come with instructions and we don't know how to act when something happens for the first time... But soner or later we learn , others experience and we may have our own experience so then people become strong...They just should know how to be strong and they should understand it themselves.
8)Why don't we dream big? Most of people think that dreaming is stupid and it doesn't give us anything, so people are afraid, because they think that to dream big means dreaming abut something impossible and they think it's stupid, but there are "crazy" ones who dream big and are happy.
9)Why don't we live right?God created person and gave biggest gift, we are able to choose and it depends on person and their choice, to live right or not ,but at first person should figure out what does "right" mean for them.
10)Why we hurt others without even knowing it?Mostly people act like they want and they are searching benefit in everything , so sometimes they don't bother themselves to look around and notice how many people they hurt, and what I think everyone should do, is just to put themself on others place and think of how would they feel if someone treated them like that.
11)Why we have to smile when we're broken in peaces?If you feel bad and you don't want to smile then just don't , and be sad, no one said you have to smile, but if you want to be strong and you don't want others to know how hurt you are or you want to show others that it's not that easy to put you down, then of course you'll smile , it should be your choice.
12) Why isn't life a fairytale? Life is a long learning process and everything that happens teaches us something, and if life was a fairytale it would be boring and easy ,but as all people want to be strong they should pass obstacles, because in life nothing is easy to get and everything has it's price (I don't mean money)
13)Why we lose? Everything has its start and its end, and nothing lasts forever, that's fact and no one can change it and again we should get used to it because it teaches us something too.
14)Why we fall for ones who don't deserve any love?Well...because they need it most...
15)Why it still hurts? It still has meaning and means much for you, you still care about it.
16)Why nobody cares? People are too obsessed with themselves and their problems, and they become stone-hearted and we don't notice them who really cares.
17)Why am I the one that can't answer this?You are too young, you don't know and understand many things and you see problems in everything...It's normal just, be, see, live simpler, and dont expect much.
Hope I helped ^_^
here is K-s post "Why do guys always hurt and don't care about others' feelings? Why nobody helps? Why everybody judges us? Why do people hate when they don't know a shit about the person? Why it hurts? Why it makes us cry? Why aren't we strong? Why don't we dream big? Why don't we live right? Why we hurt others without even knowing it? Why we have to smile when we're broken in peaces? Why isn't life a fairytale? Why we lose? Why we fall for ones who don't deserve any love? Why it still hurts? Why nobody cares? Why am I the one that can't answer this?... XoXo Katherine"
So let's start!
1)Why do guys always hurt and don't care about others' feelings? Well I don't think I can answer it properly, but I know many guys who aren't like that so our job is just to find right one and I think all guys care about others feelings but most of them just can't understand that their acts hurt us, or they are afraid to be hurt themselves.
2)Why nobody helps?For real there are many people around us who want and try to help us, but at first we have to help ourselves because if you're lost yourself then no one can help you.
3)Why everybody judges us? Well, that's very old question...but you know it's easier to judge someone, than to try and find minuses in yourself, and mostly people who judge, aren't good enough. so they try to find many minuses in others, so they think they're better...People like that are really poor.
4)Why do people hate when they don't know a shit about the person? Well that's one more example of weak people...Hate, itself is bad feeling, and I think only weak people hate, because strong ones are higher than that.
5)Why it hurts? Well it doesn't hurt, unless it's important for you, and we are young, we don't have much experience and we're not used to it, so maybe that's why.
6)Why it makes us cry?Well this answer depends on previous one...We cry when we don't know what else to do, and people think crying is weakness , but it's not and after you cry you always feel better, it's like all your pain and feelings were in these tears and now they're gone...They're away, and we feel emptyness like hole inside you, but time after it fills again with feelings and pain...It's normal...
7) Why aren't we strong?At start all of us are weak, because life doesn't come with instructions and we don't know how to act when something happens for the first time... But soner or later we learn , others experience and we may have our own experience so then people become strong...They just should know how to be strong and they should understand it themselves.
8)Why don't we dream big? Most of people think that dreaming is stupid and it doesn't give us anything, so people are afraid, because they think that to dream big means dreaming abut something impossible and they think it's stupid, but there are "crazy" ones who dream big and are happy.
9)Why don't we live right?God created person and gave biggest gift, we are able to choose and it depends on person and their choice, to live right or not ,but at first person should figure out what does "right" mean for them.
10)Why we hurt others without even knowing it?Mostly people act like they want and they are searching benefit in everything , so sometimes they don't bother themselves to look around and notice how many people they hurt, and what I think everyone should do, is just to put themself on others place and think of how would they feel if someone treated them like that.
11)Why we have to smile when we're broken in peaces?If you feel bad and you don't want to smile then just don't , and be sad, no one said you have to smile, but if you want to be strong and you don't want others to know how hurt you are or you want to show others that it's not that easy to put you down, then of course you'll smile , it should be your choice.
12) Why isn't life a fairytale? Life is a long learning process and everything that happens teaches us something, and if life was a fairytale it would be boring and easy ,but as all people want to be strong they should pass obstacles, because in life nothing is easy to get and everything has it's price (I don't mean money)
13)Why we lose? Everything has its start and its end, and nothing lasts forever, that's fact and no one can change it and again we should get used to it because it teaches us something too.
14)Why we fall for ones who don't deserve any love?Well...because they need it most...
15)Why it still hurts? It still has meaning and means much for you, you still care about it.
16)Why nobody cares? People are too obsessed with themselves and their problems, and they become stone-hearted and we don't notice them who really cares.
17)Why am I the one that can't answer this?You are too young, you don't know and understand many things and you see problems in everything...It's normal just, be, see, live simpler, and dont expect much.
Hope I helped ^_^
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I love this Post :))) -A
Awesome post thank you though I saw it only now -Katherine
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